By:
Allison Remcheck
Around Spring Break, more people come in to talk about dislike for their
bodies, said Tracy Masterson, assistant director of the Kent State Psychological
Clinic. Approximately 7 million women and 1 million men struggle with
eating disorders. MICHELE ROEHRIG | DAILY KENT STATER
Say goodbye to abominable-snowman puffer jackets, itchy sweaters and
mountain-people snow boots.
Spring is quickly approaching and bringing with it skinny tank tops,
skimpy shorts and teeny bikinis - as well as body anxiety.
Tracy Masterson, assistant director of the Kent State Psychological
Clinic, said around Spring Break, more people come in to talk about
dislike for their bodies.
From those who just target various body parts to hate to people who
have developed eating disorders because they truly don't have an accurate
view of what they look like, Masterson said both males and females become
preoccupied and distressed with their body image.
"In college, it's just a time of people being evaluated a lot
on their looks," Masterson said.
This concern about body image varies around the world, Masterson said,
and Americans have particular issues, probably because of an unrealistic
perfect body portrayed by the media. Even within the United States,
some cultures are less likely to feel pressure about their bodies. African-American
women, in particular, Masterson said, usually have much healthier views
of their bodies.
"There's this media ideal that you have to be as skinny as Britney
Spears before the baby," said Taryn Myers, clinical psychology
graduate student and therapist at the clinic. "But for a lot of
women, that's not very attainable."
Eating can become a control issue with some people, Masterson said,
and this is when severe eating disorders - such as anorexia - develop.
"It's about control," she said. "They tend to be really
high achievers in other areas too."
People with eating disorders say they spend 70 to 80 percent of their
day thinking about their body, Masterson said, but the people around
them may not know it.
"It's kind of like a secret that they may not tell to other people,"
she said.
Even men can develop eating disorders, she said. It usually starts
when males have to maintain a certain weight for a sport, such as wrestling.
Some people have addictive personalities that makes them more prone
to eating disorders - either eating too much or exercising too much,
Masterson said.
"They may choose exercise, but they may have just as easily gotten
into gambling," she said.
A poor body image oftentimes coincides with other depression or anxiety,
Masterson said.
When someone starts to feel poorly about his or her body, Masterson
said exercising in moderation, eating better and getting more sleep
can often help.
People should try "to appreciate that we're all individuals,"
she said. "Confidence itself is so attractive."
Myers said people have a tendency to focus on body parts they dislike
but should instead focus on body parts they do like, for instance, their
hair or eyes.
"Being unhappy with their body is a general part of being unhappy
with themselves," she said.
Self-esteem is difficult to teach her patients, Masterson said.
"I really have to challenge their level of commitment," she
said. "It's really easy to keep feeling bad. You have to be committed
to not think negatively. It's trying to teach them how to hold on to
the positive."
Positive speech isn't intuitive for most people, Masterson said. She
trains her clients to talk about what they do well.
And speaking negatively about oneself serves a purpose, Masterson said.
"It gets you something," she said. "If they really can
change it (and they don't), they're probably getting something from
this behavior."
Friends should work together and stop criticizing each other and themselves,
so the whole group becomes more confident, Myers said.
And if a friend is showing bad eating or lifestyle habits, talk to
him or her about it, she said. Try to phrase it in a non-offensive way,
by saying, "I care about you, and I just wanted to talk to you
about why you've been making some unhealthy choices lately," she
said.
"Do you worry about offending them?" Myers said. "Or
do you care about their health more?"
Masterson said people can improve their body image by working with
their self-esteem as a whole and finding something they are good at
or doing volunteer work - anything to keep their minds off themselves.
She also asks her clients to log their thoughts through a week, and
write down their first thought after events happen, and think about
if they were vulnerable in the situation. Then they should write down
ways to counteract the negative thoughts. This teaches them to combat
their automatic negative thoughts about themselves.
People should seek counseling, Masterson said, "when they are
not finding pleasure in the things they would normally find pleasure
in; when something you might do might be scary to you."
Myers said people should pay attention to what their body is telling
them.
"Listen to your own body rather than the people around you or
the media," she said.
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